UserWiki:Carrotmaster67

Basic information
Hi, we're the Otherside System. We are a neurotraumagenic system (traumagenic, neurogenic, fluctugenic, moodgenic and paragenic to be precisely) that is somewhere between a Plural-Singlet and a median system, although we keep moving to the median side. Our body age is minor (somewhere between 13 and 17, we prefer not to say it exactly). We're also neurodivergent and many of us are alterhuman and/or otherkin. We will sometimes use I/me instead of we/us while refering to our system. That doesn't mean that we don't recognize our headmates, but it just means that we're sometimes too less seperate to be really plural, which makes us uncomfortable with using plural pronouns sometimes.

Some more stuff

 * Pronouns: xe/xem, ve/vir, ae/aer or he/him on the right days and for the right headmates, but they/them if you don't know our current pronouns.


 * tone indicators: yes, we need those in most cases. (however, if you can't use them for a reason, that's of course okay)


 * We are currently okay with both 'headmates' and 'alters', but we aren't okay with 'alter egos' or 'personalities'.


 * We do not have a preference between 'system' and 'collective', although we will use 'system' for ourselves.


 * We also don't have a preference between 'innerworld' and 'headspace', and we will probably use the two simultaneously.


 * We're completely okay with queer as a reclaimed slur, but we aren't comfortable with most other (reclaimed) slurs.

headmates (we will put more information here soon)
Note to this section: we have been a system for quite some time, but due to recent stress and mood swings, our system has changed. Because of that, we also got more headmates, but we aren't sure about much information of them. Therefore, a part of our system isn't noted here yet. We will complete this section when we know more about them.

Raven
Pronouns: ae/aer, sometimes he/him

Age: minor

Species: shapeshifter, mainly human, but can also get characteristics of other creatures like ravens

Gender: genderflorer, ravengender, musicgender

Attraction: loveless aromantic, bold stripe aroace, aqueerplatonic, anaesthetic, analterous, asensual

Role: host, core

Rubedo
Pronouns: xe/xem, sometimes he/him

Age: minor

Species: human

Gender: novarian, xenogenders

Attraction: bi-oriented aroace, asensual

Role: none

Crimson
Pronouns: ve/vir

Age: minor

Species: half-daemon(maybe? Or something like that?)

Gender: agender

Attraction: asexual, biromantic, asensual

Role: co-host

Lime
Pronouns: ae/aer, sometimes she/her

Age: minor

Species: human

Gender: not sure, probably nebularian

Attraction: bi-oriented aroace, asensual

Role: none

Diras
Pronouns: he/him

Age: minor

Species: human

Gender: cisgender male

Attraction: asexual, biromantic, asensual

Role: nightwatcher

Monarch
Pronouns: ey/em, they/them

Age: ancient (1000+ years)

Species: shapeshifter

Gender: singularian

Attraction: anattractional

Role: architect, overseer, officium

Zodiac
Pronouns: not using pronouns is preferred

Age: ageless

Species: unknown

Gender: not sure, most likely genderless

Attraction: bold stripe aroace

Role: archivist

Cherry
Pronouns: they/them

Age: minor

Species: human

Gender: non-binary

Attraction: aroace, asensual, bitertiary

Role: protector

Lotus
Pronouns: ge/gem

Age: age slider (13-17), maybe ageless?

Species: angel

Gender: angelgender, angeligender, angelian, angelhonum, lotusian

Attraction: loveless (bi-oriented?) aroace

Role: co-host

Quasar
Pronouns: they/them

Age: unknown

Species: human

Gender: agender

Attraction: aroace, aqueerplatonic, anaesthetic, analterous, asensual

Role: quoitin

Forest
Pronouns: they/them

Age: unknown

Species: unknown

Gender: agender

Attraction: aroace?

Role: unknown

More info: Forest formed very recently. We do not know much about them, and they don't know much about themselves. We will update their section when we know more about them.

Whisper
Pronouns: ? (we use they/them)

Age: ?

Species: they do not appear to have a material form in our innerworld

Gender: ?

Attraction: ?

Role: persecutor(/malicitor?)

Disorders and similar things

 * OSDD-1b


 * bipolar disorder I


 * seasonal affective disorder


 * hoarding disorder


 * maladaptive daydreaming disorder


 * gender dysphoria, xenodysphoria and gender fragmentation

D.N.I.
Do not interact with us if:


 * You're discriminating on any way.


 * You're against any lgbta, GSRM or mogai label.


 * You're a sysmed, transmed or any of their varieties.


 * You're a TERF or any of its varieties.


 * You're against m-spec lesbians.


 * You're anti-xenogenders.


 * You're anti-alterhuman or anti-otherkin.


 * You believe headmates or plural-singlet-personalities are the same as alter ego's.


 * You believe neurodivergent people are lesser in any way than neurotypical people.


 * You believe that neurodivergent individuals are different from neurotypical individuals in any other negative way.


 * You believe that endogenic systems aren't real systems.


 * You believe systems can only form due to trauma or/and systems can only be disordered.


 * You believe any type of trauma is 'worse' or 'heavier' than others.

Specific D.N.I.
We might ask you(&) not to interact with us if you(&) fall within the D.N.I.-criteria noted above, or for other reasons. If we do so, please


 * do not reply on our posts.


 * do not ping us, unless we asked you(&) to do so.


 * do not leave a message on our talk page.


 * do not participate in discussions we are very active in.

However, we are still okay if you:


 * thank for our posts.


 * vote in polls we made.


 * reply on posts or discussions made by other people when we placed around one or two reply's on them.


 * reply to questions from other people where we already replied on.


 * contact us for mod purposes. (if you(&) are (a) moderator(s) of this wiki)


 * talk to our other headmates, if the D.N.I. is specified for only a few headmates.

(We made this D.N.I. less forced than those of many other users, because we do not think it's completely fair to block users off from many possibilities on this wiki. However, when we ask for a D.N.I. with you(&), please do not interact with us on the four ways noted above)

(as a side note, we will fully respect it when you(&) ask for a full D.N.I. with us, even while we don't give those to other users)